• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Forks and Folly

Food. Fun. Fun with your Food.

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter

  • Home
  • About
  • Food
  • Folly
    • Crafting
    • Decor
    • Fitness
    • Lifestyle
  • F&F Series
    • Kitchen Stories
    • 52 Weeks of Sweets
    • F&F Around the World
  • Collaborate
  • Contact

September 1, 2011 Mom Time

A Cautionary Tale

Last weekend my family and I vacationed in the mountains. Upon arriving at our scenic rental home, appropriately named “Lakeview,” the adults and kids went to check out the lake. The kids ran down to the water to chase toads, collect rocks, and do boy stuff. The adults, six of us in all (plus Baby Will), gathered at the top of the hill to keep an eye on the kids, Graham and his cousins ages 5 and 7. We were deep in conversation when my brother-in-law yelled, “Graham’s in the water!”

We all direct our eyes to the water where we see Graham flailing in the water face first with his legs kicking up in the air. “He’s drowning!”, I think. The adults begin to run to the water. Someone screams for the cousins to jump in and right Graham so he can breathe. The oldest cousin jumps in the water and keeps Graham afloat. My husband reaches the water and pulls him out. Graham is screaming but unharmed. He held his breath in the water. We ascend the hill with a wet Graham to find Baby Will crying in the grass. How did he get there?

I’ve never been more scared in my life. Time froze as we ran down the short hill to reach my child who was so startled he didn’t realize he could have stood in the shallow water. Everything he knew about swimming was gone, except, thank God, how to hold his breath. Graham eventually calmed down, we gave him a shower to wash off pond scum and put on dry clothes. I told him I was so sorry he fell in the lake. He looked at me, patted my arm, and said, “It’s OK mommy. It happens sometimes.”

Yes, it does happen sometimes. And as summer comes to a close, we may be putting a little too much confidence in our young one’s ability to swim. I mean, they survived all summer right? What’s the worst that can happen? Well, I can tell you, I got a glimpse of the worst that can happen, and it got me scared. I close my eyes, and it’s the first image I see… my little boy unable to swim in the water. I’m so glad that we were there and were able to help my son. I can’t let myself linger on the alternative.

Give your little ones an extra kiss tonight (I know I will), and let’s all remember to be extra diligent while our children are in the water.

Categories: Mom Time

About Katie

Katie Harding has been blogging since 2010. What originally started out as a platform to discuss new parenthood, her blogging now focuses on her passion for cooking: creating recipes and sharing tips for entertaining friends and family of all ages. Outside of the kitchen you’ll find her with her family (three boys, one husband, multiple exchange student daughters, and Hank the pup), or gallivanting around the world with her fork in tow.

Subscribe & Receive my Free "Cook Once, Eat Twice" Cookbook

Load up on new recipes, exclusive goodies + more. I pinky promise to keep it awesome! We don't do spam.

Previous Post: « The Best Deals in Town – Charlotte Kids Consignment Calendar
Next Post: Water Safety Tips, a guest blog by Daniela S. »

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Angelle says

    September 1, 2011 at 12:25 pm

    I am so sorry that happened, Katie. Especially at that age where they are getting kinda capable, it is easy to forget that things can still happen. Hugs to you and your family.

    Reply
  2. Caroline says

    September 7, 2011 at 2:44 am

    Thanks for the reminder, Katie…I can’t begin to imagine how scary that would have been! Gives me shivers to even think about it!! When I was 2, I fell off of a floating dock into a brown, murky lake (face first). Thank the Lord my uncle dove in right after me & felt my leg. (Oddly enough, he didn’t learn to swim until he was an adult when he decided to pursue lifeguarding as a profession–*shakes head* only in Switzerland–for the “hot girls”, of course! Hah! Whatever the reason, I’m glad he learned!)

    Reply
  3. DouglasPrese says

    February 1, 2025 at 11:22 am

    I’ve started using CBD gummies like https://www.cornbreadhemp.com/collections/full-spectrum-cbd-oil , and they’ve made a important quarrel in my routine. They’re easygoing to basis, palate gigantic, and accommodate a simple spirit to include CBD into my day. I’ve establish they help me decrease and redress my sleep after a prolonged day, which has been a huge benefit. The consistent CBD dosage in each gummy is a enormous gain looking for managing intake. If you’re making allowance for CBD, gummies are an select option to start with—honourable establish sure you determine a loyal discredit looking for the most artistically results!

    Reply
  4. Zora Hill says

    January 9, 2026 at 2:01 am

    sex

    Reply
  5. bedpage says

    January 9, 2026 at 2:03 am

    Bedpage is often recommended for its honest and organized presentation. Users feel informed thanks to accurate descriptions. Reviews frequently mention the relaxed browsing environment. This trust-driven approach creates positive experiences. Many return because the platform delivers what it promises. In high-demand cities such as Erotic massage in Las Vegas, Bedpage stands out for reliability.

    Reply
  6. escort time says

    January 19, 2026 at 5:19 am

    A professional escort platform should feel organized, and Escorttime achieves that goal. The website displays escort profiles in a clean layout. Navigation remains smooth and responsive. The professional design builds trust. Overall, this escort directory provides a dependable and user-friendly experience.

    Reply

Trackbacks

  1. Life Skill: Swimming - Busy Kids Happy Mom says:
    August 11, 2015 at 5:33 pm

    […] shared about her son’s water accident, click here.  She’s an avid believer in teaching children to […]

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Welcome!

Welcome to Forks and Folly! It's time to have some fun in the kitchen. Forks and Folly is about enjoying the process of cooking and entertaining. No complicated recipes. No stress. It's back to basics with easy, make ahead food, and fabulous hosting tips.

In addition to contributions on this blog, you'll find me behind the scenes working with my favorite brands through my marketing agency b2k Media Marketing.

Have a question or want to work with me? Drop me an email anytime.

♥, Katie

Subscribe & Receive my Free “Cook Once, Eat Twice” Cookbook.

Load up on new recipes, exclusive goodies + more. I pinky promise to keep it awesome! We don't do spam.

Search

What’s for Dinner?

Chili Crisp Yakisoba - Pan fried noodles with bok choy and chili crisp fried egg.

How to Make Chili Crisp for the best ever Pan Fried Yakisoba

Popular Posts

Freezer-Friendly Pancake Muffins Recipe
DIY Pup Paw Salt Dough Ornaments
Hibachi-Style Sesame Ginger Zucchini
Soul-Warming Mushroom and Wild Rice Soup
Yummy Thai Peanut Veggie Rice Bowls
Lemon Springerle Cookies: #52WeeksofSweets, Week 30
Make This: Cranberry Spiced Holiday Punch
Sparkling Cranberry Ginger Cocktail Recipe for your Holiday Gathering

Party Time!

The 'Winter in the South' Coffee Cocktail will warm up your hands and your soul this holiday season.  Easy to make and requiring just a few ingredients, this warm coffee cocktail will keep the party going on cool winter evenings.

Winter in the South, a Southern Coffee Cocktail

Find me on Instagram

Who knew we all would look so fabulous in hair net Who knew we all would look so fabulous in hair nets? Awesome afternoon volunteering with @nochildhungry_ to support #hurricanehelene relief in WNC. ❤️
Another #vegansupper win! Perfect for cooler night Another #vegansupper win! Perfect for cooler nights (we'll get those eventually, right?), a creamy vegan parm sauce is folded into baked barley and shiitake 🍄 

Topped with arugula dressed with EVOO and lemon. 💯🎉❤️
Back to school photo time! 4th, 8th, 11th grades.. Back to school photo time! 4th, 8th, 11th grades... plus back to school brunch & a little porch sitting with #hankharding waiting for the 🚌
Me: I think I’m good on travel for a bit. Jon: Me: I think I’m good on travel for a bit.

Jon: I have to go to New York for a work meeting on Monday.  Wanna come?

Me: Obviously.

📷 recap:
1: @flyblade transport to the city
2: Views from our ride
3: First night show, Oh Mary
4: Inside the Lyceum Theater
5: Art along the High Line
6: Observation deck at @EdgeNYC
7: Down on the ground, looking up at the observation deck
8: View from the top of the Edge, Hudson Yards
9: ✔️ Bucket List item checked off, dinner at @elevenmadisonpark 
10: ✔️✔️Double check when we got invited for a private wine cellar tour with a bottle of champagne  #dreamsdocometrue
11: Last day lunch @jajajamexicana (#veganmexican)
12: Plant based nachos = the only way to move past the world’s best dinner the night before
Follow on Instagram
logo
Food Advertising by

Grab a Badge

Forks & Folly
Forks & Folly

Forks and Folly © 2026 · Privacy Statement · Built with and Genesis Framework by Bellano Web Studio