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December 3, 2012 Parenting

Our Battle with Masklophobia

def: Masklophobia (n) the fear of seeing huge animal mascots!

Disney World.  Chick-fil-A.  Monkey Joe’s.  Chuck E. Cheese.  Do you know what all of these places have in common?  Graham and I can tell you – Characters in costumes.   And Graham has a serious fear of anything in a costume.

ChickFilA_Cow

It started with the Chick-fil-A Cow.  I thought two-year-old Graham would get a real kick out of Cow Appreciation Day.  But, I guess in his two-year-old reality, it is not commonplace for a giant cow to sneak up on you while you’re minding your own business eating french fries and drinking milk.  Thinking that Graham just didn’t like the sudden sneak attack of the cow, I decided it would be best to take him up for a formal meet and greet with Mr. Cow.  Um, yeah…. That’s when his full-on mascot phobia started.  Apparently, it is not always best to attack your fears head on.  For years, I had to listen to “NO COW!” every time we drove by a Chick-fil-A.

monkey+joe

My parenting continued to improve when I invited Monkey Joe to drop by our house for a formal phobia intervention.  Graham was shown the costume, and then a Monkey Joe employee put on each piece of the Monkey Joe outfit to show Graham that it is just a costume.  Graham was scared but managed to keep it together until the head was on.  Graham lost his cookies.  That’s when my parenting skills really began to shine.  I decided Graham would get the whole costume thing if I  wore the Monkey Joe’s head. Yep, there will be much therapy in Graham’s adult-hood because of that day.

From then on, I decided I was no longer going to push the kid.  Clearly, this was a real phobia, and something that he would have to work out himself.  Which is why, when Monkey Joe was making an appearance at Family Night that was planned for my playgroup, I told Graham that he would not have to meet Monkey Joe.

I asked the management to show me who would be wearing the Monkey Joe’s costume, then Graham and I went up to the guy.  “Do not come near our table please, once you wear the costume,” we told the guy.  “We’re not big fans of characters.”  Cool.  Understood.

Monkey Joe came out about 15 minutes later.  Graham kept an eye on him, but wasn’t freaked out.  He felt comfortable knowing Monkey Joe knew the limits.  When Graham grabbed for a cookie to eat after dinner, I told him if he went up to say hi to Monkey Joe he could have two cookies.  After all, he had met the guy that was Monkey Joe and it’s only polite to say “Hi” to those that you know.

This struck a nerve with Graham.  If anything, the kid  is polite.  Graham took my hand and we went up to Monkey Joe.  To Monkey Joe’s credit he just stood there, shy himself, and waved at my child.  Graham looked at me and smiled.  “Graham,” I said, “We shake people’s hands when we meet them.”  Graham obediently shook Monkey Joe’s hand and smiled.  “Soft, right?”  Yep, Monkey Joe is soft.  Graham went back to his seat and ate his cookies.

monkey joe

Later on in the evening, Monkey Joe made a second appearance.  “Wanna go up and say hi again since y’all are friends now?” I asked.  Sure!  Graham ran up and gave that monkey a giant hug.  My pride overfloweth.  My big boy embraced his fears in the name of being polite and friendly.   What a kid.

Is your child afraid of characters in costume?  Which characters send your kid running for the hills?

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Katie Harding has been blogging since 2010. What originally started out as a platform to discuss new parenthood, her blogging now focuses on her passion for cooking: creating recipes and sharing tips for entertaining friends and family of all ages. Outside of the kitchen you’ll find her with her family (three boys, one husband, multiple exchange student daughters, and Hank the pup), or gallivanting around the world with her fork in tow.

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  1. Patty Hinds says

    November 14, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    Katie, My 4 yr old granddaughter is terrified of all mascots especially the Iowa Cubs Mascot Cubby Bear. We have assured her that there is a real person in there, but if she sees him she shakes so violently and holds on for dear life. I thought about contacting Cubbie Bear for a unsuited one on one. Do you feel this would helpful. She will not go to parties at Chuck E Cheeses nor does she have a desire to go to Disney. Also not sure if this relates, but terrified of Med to Big dogs. Any suggestions would be grateful. Thank you for your time. Patty Hinds

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    • Katie says

      November 14, 2013 at 3:30 pm

      Funny timing on your questions. We’ve just kicked my oldest son of his phobia, now my youngest (age 2) is even more afraid of characters than his brother. I think age more than anything is the best cure, and seeing friends engage with the characters has helped too. We did have the character come to our home, but I’m not sure that it helped much. In fact, I think it may have freaked him out even more that a character CAME. TO. HIS. HOUSE. His safe zone. I’d say give it time, and if at 7 or 8 you are still having issues seek further guidance from a real pro! 🙂

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  2. Madisyn says

    May 22, 2018 at 7:05 pm

    I actually have this phobia myself and I’m 16. No matter what I do I cannot get over it. I will cry for hours until the character leaves. I remember even watching a employee put the costume on and as soon as the head was on I started having a fit.

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  3. Jennifer says

    February 1, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    My 10 yr old daughter is terrified of mascots, especially Benny the Beaver for Oregon State University. She is to the point that she ran out into a parking lot just to avoid him in the stands at a softball game. Yes she is in therapy to help her overcome this, but it’s hard as a mom to watch her shake uncontrollably just at the mere thought that a mascot might be in the vicinity. I hate seeing her this scared. Her fight or flight response is strong when it comes to mascots – strictly flight for her. She has watched people put the costumes on, she has even put one on herself hoping it might help. She wore a mascot head for halloween this last year thinking it would make it better. So far not much has helped. I am hoping therapy, and age will help her overcome some of this. Nice to see there is a name for this though as some of her friends aren’t always so nice.

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  4. LineyD says

    June 3, 2022 at 12:50 pm

    My ten year old is terrified and we just don’t know what to do. Anywhere we plan a day out, he asks if there are going to be mascots and then works himself up into a right state if there’s even a slim chance there might be one. He is missing out on so much, and we have had to change plans to take the kids to Disney etc because of it. I’m assuming we’ll need to seek some sort of therapy for him. He knows it’s just a person in a costume, but he doesn’t like being unable to see the person’s face, especially the eyes.

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  5. stephine stakenas says

    July 30, 2022 at 4:30 pm

    my duaghter is scared of mascots

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